Lacan, like Freud, believed that individuals are socialized by passing through
the three stages of the Oedipus complex: seduction, the “primal scene,” and
the castration phase, the last of which Lacan reconfigured as the “Father’s
‘No’.” In the so-called seduction phase, the child is attracted to the original
object of desire, which is the body of the mother. In the “primal scene” or
“primal stage” the child witnesses the father having sexual intercourse with
the mother, and this is followed by the “castration phase,” wherein the father
restricts the child’s access to the mother under threat of castration. The
“Law of the Father” or “Father’s ‘No’” causes the child to redirect desire
from the mother to what Lacan calls the “Other”—a hypothetical “place” in
the unconscious which allows the individual to later project desire onto
other persons—other, that is, than the mother.
Lacan holds that there are three “registers” in the child’s psychosexual development:
the imaginary, the symbolic, and the real. These correspond—
somewhat—to the Freudian oral, anal, and genital stages and are related, indirectly,
to the three stages of the Oedipus complex.
At the level of the imaginary, the pre-Oedipal infant inhabits a world without
clear subject-object distinctions. The child thinks that it is coextensive
with the mother’s body. While the child perceives the mother’s body as nurturing
and pleasurable, it also entertains fantasies that the mother’s body
might overwhelm and destroy it. This yields alternating fantasies of incorporation
and assault, whereby the child is both blissful in its identification with
the body of the mother and frightfully aggressive toward it. At this stage in its
development, the child inhabits a world of images. The mirror stage is the
most important moment of imaginary misidentification, or méconnaissance.
méconnaissance.
It is the father who disrupts the closed dyadic relationship between
mother and child, according to Lacan. The father signifies what Lacan calls
“the Law” or the “Law of the Father,” which is always, in the first instance, the
incest taboo. The child’s intensely libidinal relationship with its mother’s
body is opened to the wider world of family and society by the figure of the
father. The father’s appearance divides the child from the mother’s body
and drives the child’s desire for its mother into the unconscious. Therefore
“the Law” and unconscious desire for the mother emerge at the same time,
according to Lacanian psychoanalysis.
The child’s experience of the father’s presence is also its first experience
of sexual difference, and with it comes the dim awareness that there is someone
else other than the mother in its world. The “Father’s ‘No’” deflects the
child’s desire from the mother to what Lacan calls the “Other.” Lacan identified
the “Other” as a hypothetical place in the unconscious which can be projected
onto human counterparts by subjects. Lacan held that the “Other” is
never fully grasped because the nature of desire is such that its object is always
beyond its reach.